Friday, September 09, 2011

Bad Boyfriends



Photo from here

I know we've all had our share of these jerks. I just thought I'd categorize each one of them from my past experiences. Also, if anyone of you are realizing that your partner or you are one of these Bad Boyfriend, you know what to do. edit 9/17/11 Before anyone reacts (or after since it took me days to add this disclaimer), I'm not saying that I'm the poster child for good boyfriends nor have these past guys been totally jerks. We all have bad boyfriends inside of us. It just sucks to find yourself with one who is more inclined to be one. For all you know I could be one in the list.



The Politician

These types are really annoying. Tulad ng mga politiko, ang hilig nilang mag tayo ng billboards tuwing may projects sila. Kasehodang pag fill lang ng isang lubak sa daan, go sa pag lagay ng billboard na mas mahal pa yata ang pagpapa print kesa sa actual project. Whenever these guys do something for you, they make sure you don't forget all their struggles and hardships doing that deed. Even if it is just as simple as accompanying you to the jeepney stop from their houses. Like they just did you a favor. I mean, WTH, aren't they supposed to do that because they are your partners? Including a bunch of other stuffs? Isn't that one of the perks of being in a relationship? Feeling loved and protected without them shoving it in your face?

The Better Half

Literally the better half or atleast they think they are. Ito yung mga partners na tingin nila sa sarili nila ay mas mataas sayo. They think they are smarter than you, good looking than you or more successful than you. Heck, they even think others are better than you! They always contradict, second think or put aside your opinions and ideas like it is as natural to them as breathing. Automatic na. Pero kapag ibang tao ang nag present sakanya ng mga 'yun, agree to the max naman kaagad ang lola! Mahilig din silang makipag "diskusyunan" sayo about some things. Intelligent debate daw. Pero ang totoo they just want to tell you that they are right and you're wrong. Since sila yung mga taong nakatanim sa utak nila na tama sila. Kahit na mas may alam ka. Clearly, they don't trust your voice in the relationship. Better drop this SOAB down the sink hole where he belongs and find someone who appreciates and lifts you up. You deserve that.

The Accountant

Tulad ng Politician, mahilig din itong ipamukha sayo ang mga bagay bagay na hindi naman kailangan pang ipamukha sayo. Unless, of course, they don't really love you that much. Pero nag specialize ang mga ito sa pagbibilang. Pagbibilang lahat ng mga mali mo. These types are awesome, in a twisted way. Grabe ang memory. Yung tipong tandang tanda pa ang pagkakamali mo 2 years ago at bilang bilang kung ilan na lahat ng utang mo from the day you bacame official up to the present. Are these guys keeping a tally book or are they just mentally gifted for remembering your faults? Super convenient nga ang skills nila everytime na may arguements. I-re-recite sayo lahat ng mga pagkukulang mo. Pero ang nakakatawa, parang may amnesia sila sa lahat ng mga bagay na nagawa mong tama. Haaaaay.

The Gravedigger

Like the Accountant, these guys are very talented but they specialize in remembering all your faults when there is an argument. Yung tipong kapag may away, hinahalungkat pati yung mga past sa rifts ninyong dalawa na akala mo ay nabaon na sa lupa dahil nagka sabihan at nagka tanggapan na ng sincere na "I'm sorry." at nag make-up sex na kayo. Pero kapag sumiklab na naman ang mga petty arguments, naghuhukay na naman siya. Kahit wala ka namang ginawa para i-compromise ang "forgive and forget" scenes nyo before, be rest assured that he'll unearth it again and pile it on top of the other dead bodies in front of you. So mas OK na siya nalang ibaon mo. Sa limot. Next!

to be continued

6 comments:

wanderingcommuter said...

cannot relate... wala kasi akong naging boyfriend eh! BWAHAHAHAHAHA!

Tamuríl Vardamil said...

Relate much. Now tell me. How do i leave the "Better half"? kung gumapang na sa gitna ng mundo ang pagmamahal ko sa kanya? Papa jack? Sagot? San ako magsisimula? hahahahaha. Seriously.

Mugen said...

I wonder, sino kaya diyan yung most recent mo. Lolz.

Blakrabit said...

@ewik: asa ka pa! Walang naging jowa this past month? LOL! Ang workaholic mo kasi! Pero congrats!

@Tamuril: start by loving yourself. By realizing all your good traits. the things you're good at and be grateful for all the people that appreciates and celebrates YOU!

@master: I'm not telling! Haha! Naku, mukhang kelanga ko maglagay ng disclaimer. Baka madaming mag nega comments. Char!

Tamuríl Vardamil said...

Cliche but true. I need more than that. hahaha. but yeah, thanks.

Blakrabit said...

@TV: I was afraid you'd say that. Mahirap talaga pag under the spell ka pa ng love mo sa kanila. Saka lang talaga natin marerealize ang mga ganitong bagay pag tapos ng ang lahat. Anyways, since kahit sabihin naman lahat ng ibang tao sayo sa kalimutan siya eh hindi mo rin magagawa kasi nga mahal mo siya. So, I guess you should keep on loving him. Kahit na alam mong talo ka. Kasi powerless ka sa love mo sakanya. Keep on loving him hanggang yung puso mo na mismo ang magsabing "tama na, pagod na ako". That day will come eventually.

Love,
Papa Jack